Isabella Danon 11/9/15
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If You Come Softly
If You Come Softly, by Jaqueline Woodson, tells the story of Jeremiah and Elisha (Miah and Ellie) who are in a normal relationship. There is just one thing that is different. Miah is African-American, and Ellie is Caucasian. Miah and Ellie must navigate the challenges of being in an out-of-the-ordinary relationship and learn how to cope with the people who are not as open-minded as others. They go about their days acting like a normal couple, but unfortunately receiving some stares and the occasional rude comment. However, they don't pay much mind to the people around them and more so focus on their relationship and the good things in life, because none of these people can take from them the strong bond that they have. They go through their life thinking it will always be that way. Sadly, what they don't know is that something very bad will happen in the future. On a regular day, Miah is walking through Brooklyn, to his favorite basketball court. What he doesn't know is that the police are looking for a man that happens to look quite similar to him. He is so busy with his basketball that he doesn't notice the two officers telling him to stop and stand still. When he doesn't obey, they shoot him. This is a very good example of police brutality towards African-Americans in America. Jeremiah is now dead and Ellie is beyond devastated. The moral of the story is that people should always be affectionate with the people they love, because you never know when you might lose someone out of nowhere, and everyone has different ways of coping with loss.
Ellie was in a relationship with Jeremiah. It started out with her dropping her books in the hallway, and he helped her pick them up. There was something special between them from the moment they saw each other. After that, they both ended up thinking about each other a lot, as weird as it sounds. When Ellie told her sister about Miah, her sister did not approve. Ellie found this hypocritical because her sister was in a lesbian relationship. They stopped talking to each other after that. For a while, all Miah and Ellie did was think about each other. Then after a couple months passed, they decided to skip class and go for a walk. They ended up talking about a lot of things, including their feelings for each other. In the end, Jeremiah kissed Ellie and they ended up a couple. They stayed like this for about a month, having their ups and downs, but nothing too serious. When Miah passed away Ellie was extremely upset because she had lost the one person who truly understood her.
Nelia was Jeremiah's mother. She had been married to Jeremiah's father for a few years, but they had ended up getting a divorce due to Jeremiah's father having an affair with a woman called Lois Anne, who lived across the street. Jeremiah lived with his mother, but also spent a lot of time with his father because they lived across the street from each other. Nelia and Jeremiah had a very close relationship. There were times when Jeremiah got upset that his family was divided, but he always stuck by his mom. After Jeremiah's death, Nelia fell into a deep depression. She was an author, so she began writing a lot more to express her feelings. She also cut her hair to symbolize that she was starting over.
Carlton was Jeremiah's best friend. He was a very good basketball player, and him and Jeremiah would often play basketball together. When Miah told him about his relationship with Ellie, he was very supportive, because he was biracial, with a black father and a white mother. After the death of Miah, Carlton began to find out a lot more about himself. He realized that he liked boys and often found himself thinking about how attractive the boys on his basketball team were. He decided to tell this to Ellie and Kennedy, one of Jeremiah's friends from school, whom Carlton knew from the basketball practices. Carlton had found out a lot about himself, and he knew that Jeremiah would have supported his decisions.
Norman was Jeremiah's father. After having problems with Jeremiah's mother, he moved in with his girlfriend across the street. Therefore, he spent a lot of time with Jeremiah. Often times, Lois Anne would be there when Jeremiah was at Norman's house. Surprisingly, she and Jeremiah were quite close. She was also deeply saddened after his passing. In the aftermath of the shooting, Norman talks about feeling guilty that he didn't understand Jeremiah enough. In one particular conversation that they had, Norman had talked about how all white people were the same, and Jeremiah had asked his father if he thought that maybe there were some, or even just one, that was different. At the time Norman couldn't understand why his son would ask a question like that, but now that he knew about Ellie, he finally understood.
Overall, this shows how different people can deal with losing someone close to them, and the different relationships those people had with that person. Ellie, Nelia, Carlton, and Norman all dealt with the tragic death of Jeremiah in different ways. They all had different relationships, but regardless of that, he was very close with all of them, and they all were very upset when he was shot. Although they were heartbroken, they each found a way to move on after a while.